Saturday, October 6, 2012
Jeff climbs down from the cab of the Bobcat 331E excavator and plucks a couple of objects from the pile of dirt. "Bones," he says.
My heart feels a jolt.
There are three bones. One is old and large and decayed, the leg of a cow, most likely. Tibia, I think. I don't know how it came to be buried in my yard, but I'm guessing a dog was involved.
The other two bones are clean, relatively fresh, and a dog was definitely involved. These are the tibia and fibula from a hind leg of my dog Norm, who I buried ten years ago. I hadn't realized that I'd placed him right next to my lower septic drain field.
We're repairing the leach line. After 32 years of service, roots have destroyed the pipes. Muscular wooden creepers have strangled from the outside, while a solid mass of threads have blocked the inside. It's all part of the challenge of living in a redwood forest. The big trees, harvesting my sewage, are thriving.
I'd chosen to bury Norm just below the spot where I'd buried his best friend, my older dog, a golden lab mix named Oak. In life, Oak had always roosted on a wooden loveseat in a sunny spot on my deck. Norm would curl up at the foot of the loveseat, as close as Oak would allow.
When Oak died, I buried him on the hillside below the deck. I placed the old rotten loveseat over his grave, soon covered by vines of honeysuckle and ivy. It seemed only fitting that when Norm died, I'd bury him at Oak's feet beside that now-collapsed loveseat.
Norm was a bouncy galumphus of a puppy who grew into a bouncy galumphus of a full-size black bear. He looked like a mix of flat-coat retriever and newfie. He slobbered. He loved puddles.
Norm had a tendency to overwhelm newcomers, so we often had to restrain him. One day a Hindu panditji came to our house in connection with my daughter's wedding. This wonderful, wise old man radiated lovingness while knowing only a few words of English. Norm, of course, instantly loved him. The panditji was delighted by antics that would lead most people to try to place a chair between themselves and the dog. The panditji stared into Norm's eyes and said, "Big soul."
He could just as well have mentioned: Big paws.
Norm made a great pillow.
My youngest son, Will, grew up with Norm.
It was Will who first placed a red bandanna on the dog. It was Will who took Norm on long walks in the La Honda hills. It was Will who shared his galumphing teenage years with Norm, growing his hair into dreadlocks, climbing (and falling out of) trees, playing in a rock band, wrecking the car, messing with girls, sampling illicit items, testing the limits of parental patience. Maybe it's no coincidence that when Will went away to college, Norm declined rapidly.
Dogs give you years of love. Then they leave you with a broken heart. My kids had all left home; my daughter was getting married, and the day came when I knew Norm was dying. On the deck outdoors under the trees I sat with him in daylight and into the night, touching him. His breathing came hard. "Dream of beaches," I said, rubbing the fur over his heart. The breathing slowed. And then stopped.
The big soul was released. The woods were quiet and dark. The moon was setting low among the redwoods.
Norm was a giant dog, and the next day I dug him a giant grave. I placed his head uphill, facing Oak and the loveseat. The panditji had left us bracelets of bright threads. I was still wearing one around my wrist. Now I placed another around Norm's front paw. He wore a red bandanna around his neck, as he had for most of his life.
Ten years later his legs, downhill, were clipped by the excavator. When the work is finished, I'll bury the bones again. With a fresh bandanna. And freshly-blessed threads.
May he then rest in peace.